Ouch! My Heart...

A tongue does not have a bone or knife it in, but it can so easily break or tear a heart apart.

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Stories or Facts

People prefer listening to stories rather than listening to facts.

~~~~~

 Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Never forget 3 Types of People in Your Life

NEVER FORGET

3 TYPES OF PEOPLE

IN

YOUR LIFE ~

1) Those Who Helped You in Your Difficult Times

2)Those Who left You in Your Difficult Times

3)Those Who put You in Difficult Times

~~~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

The Past

Looking back, the past always looks more illustrious than it actually was. 

It only appears more likeable because it isn't here.

~~~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

The Known Coming to an End

It's not so much fear of the unknown; to be more precise, one is afraid of the known coming to an end.

~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Become who you will be

The past will hold you back like a ton of bricks.You have to let go of who you are to become who you will be.

~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Uneducated Gossip...It's Always Complete Strangers who have the Most to Say!

I am writing to comment on slanderous references to me, communicated by individuals who do not know me. Since I live by Eleanor Roosevelt's assertion, "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people," I will not honor ad hominem attacks with words in kind. I can only state that people who engage in defamation against someone with whom they are not acquainted (or, much less, apprehend the facts, which they do _not_ take time to verify) do nothing more than waste time and fill a pitiable void in their own lives. I wish them well, while categorically refuting their falsehoods.

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Do you torment yourself?

The jealous are an annoyance to others, 

but a torment to themselves.

A self-imposed hell;

Draining what is necessary

to truly be happy and content.

Instead they suffer from

Obsessive thinking,

Insecurity

and

Paranoid personality.

~~~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Let these be your strengths!

It is so easy to allow this fast paced world and it's often propelling speed
to completely wear one down.
In life,one is pulled simultaneously and frantically to the edge of darkness.
 Synchronously tearing at you into multiple directions...
like a deafeningly loud and overwhelming roar of a fierce lion, who has finally captured and commences to devour it's prey.
What a frightening existence for the target.
Refuse to be anyone's target!
If you fall prey to anything threatening again:
Calmly remember that
"Silent" and "Listen"
contain
the same letters.
These will serve as your fortitude.
~~~~~
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

A Slow Death

California

A Slow Death.

There must be a reason that such a visually pleasing place,

is spilling over with crazy, self-absorbed, phoney fake flakes...

who are in essence living in their miserable existences...

failed lives.

They are so busy trying to keep up appearances, 

without the matching wallet.

Fake begets Fake.

No one keeps their  so called word...

No one will feign caring about you...unless it in some way benefits them.

As soon as they acquire whatever they wanted,

you can be sure that the darker uglier side of these people is almost immediately quite apparent...

Exemplifying the sad and false truths become visible...

like an avalanche of morals, humanitarianism, etiquette and basic human kindness

come tumbling down harshly

and leaving you under an enormous and heavy pile of horrors.

I can not believe what poor judgement I have unusually displayed...

However on a grande scale.

I thought I would be moving here to California for a better quality of life...untruth

People would be more caring of each other...untruth.

How could anyone be able to be nasty or depressed in beautiful weather?

Everything I had imagined was like looking in the distorted mirrors at a haunted house.

According to many acquaintances:

You know what your problem is?

You are too nice.....and NOT street smart!"

I have to escape Cali...

No one deserves to be treated

poorly.

Especially by Sociopathic, Self-Seeking, Dishonest, Uncaring

and

Disgusting excuses for human beings.

Destroy without conscience, regret nor remorse.

I am from New York City...

We New Yorkers are given a very bad rap...

When push comes to shove:

We band together and are much more caring.

9/11 proved this point.

I will pray for these pathetic excuses for human beings in California.

This is a quote I wrote after months of being here.

The title is "People"

I dedicated it to the people in San Diego.

"Sometimes you have to give up on people, not because you don’t care… but because they don't."

Stephie Pahlavi Zan