Thursday, 10 March 2016

Impossible? Ha ha...

‎"There is nothing that is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible." ~  

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Thursday, 17 September 2015

Strength from Difficulty

We are made strong by the difficulties we face not by those we evade.
~
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Monday, 14 September 2015

I have learned...

I have learned that...
you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
No matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
It's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
You can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life.
No matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
There are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
True friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.
Just because someone doesnt love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
No matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
No matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
Just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
There are so many ways of falling and staying in love.
No matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
The people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
Although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.
Love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person I see.
There are people who love you dearly but just don't know how to show it.
Every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch-holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I still have a lot to learn...... 

by Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Thursday, 10 September 2015

Family of Choice

Friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.
~~~~~
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

BFF


Friends are for now, best friends are forever.

~~~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Saturday, 5 September 2015

Solitude in Life


Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.

~~~~~~~
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

San Diego Sun



When you live in Southern California, everybody says, 'It's so expensive there!' I tell them, 'It is simply a very expensive weather tax.'




~~~~~~~~~~ 
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Sunday, 30 August 2015

San Diego Rain

People in San Diego
can not
Drive
when it rains.
It scares them. 
They act as if they are driving in a massive blizzard!
Those who don't drive,
enjoy the rain
because 
it 
is a refreshing change of pace.
 When you live in Southern California, everybody says, 'It's so expensive there.' 
 I tell them that it is's just a very expensive weather tax!
~~~
Stephie Pahlavi Zan


Wednesday, 26 August 2015

Listen to me and your life will change!


Do the things you used to talk about doing but never did. Know when to let go and when to hold on tight. Stop rushing. Don't be intimidated to say it like it is. Stop apologizing all the time. Learn to say no, so your yes has some oomph. Spend time with the friends who lift you up, and cut loose the ones who bring you down. Stop giving your power away. Be more concerned with being interested than being interesting. Be old enough to appreciate your freedom, and young enough to enjoy it. Finally know who you are.
~~~
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Tuesday, 25 August 2015

Remember Yourself

Throughout our lives we are different people from start to finish. We don't stay the same forever, but that's good so long as you remember all the people you used to be in the past. Remember who you were and remember how that made you feel.

~~~ 
Stephie Pahlavi Zan