Surprise

Perhaps who we are isn't so much about what we do, but rather what we are capable of when we least expect it

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

True Beauty

The Most Beautiful People

In My lifetime, I have met so many people from all cultures and countries.

I have been most fortunate

Everywhere that I visited...I would Encounter Physical Beauty, which stood out from the crowd.

To silently watch, and not to meet nor interact with this individual would be a crime

They can be the Most Physically Beautiful Person you have ever met in all of your life!

You are instantly mesmerized and excited

Next you desire to Meet that Person

Is This an Act of Desire or Foolishness?

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The initial physical attraction can Dissipate quite Quickly when the individual's Actions make them seem to Transform to Ugly and Appalling!

Certain individuals may be lacking what most of society considers to be attractive.

But then you make each others acquaintance and get to know a bit about them...and then their Inner Beauty prodigiously out weighs the outward

In fact They grow increasingly Stunning!

I love when I experience this lovely surprise.

So Never Judge a Book by Only It's Cover! 


Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Saccharine in San Diego

Saccharine in San Diego  ~  Direct in New York City

San Diego:

I have never met more 

passive-aggressive

2 Faced

Hot to Cold

Flakes

Fakes

Rude

Thoughtless

Inconsiderate

Egocentric

Selfish

People

And I have been All Over The World hundreds of times over...

I have never encountered any place where the people are mostly Dysfunctional and seemingly Bi-Polar in their personalities.

In San Diego...people are insidious and difficult to get to know

They will come on being Saccharine Sweet

and then Stab you in the back before you even take 2 steps

One can learn not to trust, very quickly here...if they are smart

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New York City:

I Moved from NYC to come to San Diego...thinking it would be Paradise

The things I miss the most about New Yorkers are their

Upfront

Honest 

DIRECT Approach

If someone does not like you...they tell you to your Face!

You Know where you stand

I much prefer this

You know who your enemies are 

And your friends too

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Healing

When you awaken love and laughter in your life, your mind lets go of fear and anxiety, and your happy spirit becomes the healing balm that transforms every aspect of your human experience... 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Giving

You are what you give; not what you are given.

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

 

Dogs

A dog is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

The Last Word

Sometimes the best way to have the last word is to apologize.

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Encouragement

A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than endless praise after success.

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Excellence

If you are content with the best you have done, you will never become the best you can be.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Believe in Your Self

In life you can make your own decisions or let other people make those decisions for you. Being Above The Influence is about staying true to yourself, and not letting people pressure you into being less than you. So be yourself.

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan