The Past

I have a difficult time letting go of the past. Everything seemed golden then. I must change this for I can not start the next chapter of my life if I keep re-reading the last one.

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Burning Bridges

One of the most difficult things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn.

~Stephie Pahlavi Zan~

Love

Fall in love only when you're ready, not when you're lonely

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

People ~ (Dedicated to the People of San Diego)

Sometimes you have to give up on people, not because you don’t care… but because they don't.

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

It

You're not disappointed in what it is. You're disappointed in what you thought it would be.

~

~ Stephie Pahlavi Zan ~

Better or Bitter ?

Let your past make you better, not bitter.
~Stephie Pahlavi Zan~

THE DEVIL

Be the kind of man that when

your feet hit the floor in the morning

the devil says

“Damn, he’s up"

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Smile

You look the best when you wear your smile.
There is no beauty like the one that
comes from inside you

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Masochist

The biggest possible masochist
 you shall probably ever have to deal with,
watches you
from the mirror every morning.

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Wisdom & Health

Wisdom is to the soul what 
health is to the body.
 
Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Uneducated Gossip

Uneducated Gossip is a Very Pitiable Way of Filling the Void Within

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan 

Bad Things

When Something Bad Happens to You.

You have Three Choices

~~~Either You Can Let It Define You

~~~Let It Destroy You

~~~or You Can Allow It to Strengthen You!

~~~Stephie Pahlavi Zan ~~~

The End

One is never afraid of the unknown; one is afraid of the known coming to an end

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Surprise

Perhaps who we are isn't so much about what we do, but rather what we are capable of when we least expect it

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

True Beauty

The Most Beautiful People

In My lifetime, I have met so many people from all cultures and countries.

I have been most fortunate

Everywhere that I visited...I would Encounter Physical Beauty, which stood out from the crowd.

To silently watch, and not to meet nor interact with this individual would be a crime

They can be the Most Physically Beautiful Person you have ever met in all of your life!

You are instantly mesmerized and excited

Next you desire to Meet that Person

Is This an Act of Desire or Foolishness?

~~~~~

The initial physical attraction can Dissipate quite Quickly when the individual's Actions make them seem to Transform to Ugly and Appalling!

Certain individuals may be lacking what most of society considers to be attractive.

But then you make each others acquaintance and get to know a bit about them...and then their Inner Beauty prodigiously out weighs the outward

In fact They grow increasingly Stunning!

I love when I experience this lovely surprise.

So Never Judge a Book by Only It's Cover! 


Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Saccharine in San Diego

Saccharine in San Diego  ~  Direct in New York City

San Diego:

I have never met more 

passive-aggressive

2 Faced

Hot to Cold

Flakes

Fakes

Rude

Thoughtless

Inconsiderate

Egocentric

Selfish

People

And I have been All Over The World hundreds of times over...

I have never encountered any place where the people are mostly Dysfunctional and seemingly Bi-Polar in their personalities.

In San Diego...people are insidious and difficult to get to know

They will come on being Saccharine Sweet

and then Stab you in the back before you even take 2 steps

One can learn not to trust, very quickly here...if they are smart

~~~

New York City:

I Moved from NYC to come to San Diego...thinking it would be Paradise

The things I miss the most about New Yorkers are their

Upfront

Honest 

DIRECT Approach

If someone does not like you...they tell you to your Face!

You Know where you stand

I much prefer this

You know who your enemies are 

And your friends too

~~~~~

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Healing

When you awaken love and laughter in your life, your mind lets go of fear and anxiety, and your happy spirit becomes the healing balm that transforms every aspect of your human experience... 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Giving

You are what you give; not what you are given.

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

 

Dogs

A dog is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

The Last Word

Sometimes the best way to have the last word is to apologize.

 

Stephie Pahlavi Zan