If you say My Eyes are Beautiful....
...it is because They are Looking at You!
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Stephie Pahlavi Zan
Wednesday, 1 August 2018
Monday, 30 July 2018
Brave, Fierce, Free
May my heart be brave, my mind fierce and my spirit free.
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Stephie Pahlavi Zan
Thursday, 26 July 2018
No Negativity
Spectacular things
happen when you Remove yourself from Negativity.
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Stephie Pahlavi Zan
Monday, 23 July 2018
Don't push yourself over the edge...
Try to maintain a healthy life and not push yourself over the edge.
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Stephie Pahlavi Zan
Monday, 16 July 2018
Friday, 22 June 2018
My thoughts about my Friend, Whitney Houston
Why is it when a candle burns SO bright that it blinds us with it's magnificent beauty....it will burn out quicker also. It makes me very sad to lose a good friend, who had a huge talent...then that very talent crumbles. It tries and it tries...but it has been broken...never to be the same.
That is one way to remember Whitney (Houston). The other ways are to celebrate her life and great achievements!
Do not just sum her up to be a failure...because she was magnificent with a huge gift that she shared for so long. The end was terrible to watch...and her death was worse.
This was to be her come back album.
They manipulated her voice to sound like before....somewhat.
This only made the end worse. She toured with her broken voice. Disappointment after disappointment...even to us, her family and friends. It must have enormously sad for Cissy Houston who had to stand there and watch her daughter with her wings broken. I saw her trying not to cry while watching and hearing Whitney at the end who struggled to hit notes and sing things that came so easily to her before. It was heart breaking. To go from the highest highs of life......to (I hate to say it) the lowest lows.
This truly affected Christina...so much so that she Copycat killed herself shortly after. Why is the dreads of society with no talent...get to stay around this earth? Why Whitney? Why Christina?
I can't cry any longer...I tried to type through the tears...I hope you understand.
We used to go shopping at Riverside Square Mall. We were both from NJ and became very good friends. This is how I will remember her: She had a huge career with tons of awards and she dazzled everyone! That is My Whitney........My Nippy.
I LOVE YOU through it all.
Rest peacefully with the Angels in Heaven, My love....
Stephie Pahlavi Zan
I miss you and always will.
I love you!
Sunday, 10 June 2018
An intelligent hell would be better than a stupid paradise. ~~~ Stephie Pahlavi Zan
An intelligent hell would be better than a doltish paradise.
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Stephie Pahlavi Zan
Saturday, 2 June 2018
Thursday, 31 May 2018
Updated Version: SIGNS OF A TOXIC FAMILY
Depression is often a misunderstood and misdiagnosed concept. Given how debilitating and life-choking depression can be, it's really essential that we truly appreciate the complexity of this condition. A one size fits all label that obscures each individual's unique circumstances is terribly short-sighted and perhaps inhumane.
Often, depression is what I call situational. In other words, outside stressors and the culture that we live may cause, contribute to or exacerbate this disorder. When dysfunction appears at epidemic rates, we need to take a deeper look at what's going on.
I wrote 10 signs of a Toxic Family:
SIGNS OF A TOXIC FAMILY:
1) NOTHING YOU CAN SAY OR DO IS GOOD ENOUGH.
2) THEY COMMENT ON THE SMALLEST FLAW OR PERCEIVED IMPERFECTION.
3) THEY DRAG UP YOUR PAST AND WON'T ALLOW YOU TO BE DIFFERENT.
4) THEY ACT LIKE THEY ARE ABOVE YOU AND NEVER MAKE MISTAKES.
5) THEY MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY AND ASHAMED OF WHO YOU ARE.
6) THEY ARE CRITICAL, CONTROLLING AND DON'T THINK ABOUT YOUR NEEDS.
7) THEY LEAVE YOU FEELING BEATEN, WOUNDED, BATTERED, BRUISED AND TORN.
8) THEY VIOLATE OUR BOUNDARIES AND THEY NEVER RESPECT, " NO...".
9) THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU AND THEY LOVE TO SEE YOU SUFFER.
10) IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THEM, AND WHAT THEY THINK, WANT AND FEEL.
Often those inflicting this situational depression are too doltish to know what they are doing to the individual.
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Stephie Pahlavi Zan
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