Rejection

Rejection doesn't mean that you aren't good enough... 

it just means the other person failed to realize what you have to offer.

An idiot learns from his own mistakes, a smart man from the mistakes of others.

The Past

Never judge people by their past. 

People learn. 

People change. 

People move on and forward.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

A Nasty Day

Just because you are having a nasty day, does not mean you live a grim life!

What keeps us going and determined is optimism – the doctrine or belief that everything is beautiful, including what is ugly.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Trying to bring you down

“Whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you.”

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Better Together

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Love Yourself

If you love yourself first;

 everything else falls into line. 

You really have to love yourself in order to find happiness.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Life

Life is a series of experiences, each of which makes us bigger, even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and grieves which we endure help us in our marching onward.

More or Less

No matter what you do you can pretty much always find someone else in the world that has more than you or are better than you at something...so don't stress so much. Those are the facts of life.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

The Past

Spending much of your time in the past and reliving old painful memories, conflicts, missed opportunities and so on can hurt whole lot.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

No one is an Island

No one is an island. Who we socialize with, what we read, watch and listen to has big effect on how we feel and think.

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Good Enough

Aiming for perfection usually winds up in a project or something else never being finished. So go for good enough instead.

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Stephie Pahlavi-Zan

The Way to Happiness

Stop worrying about things which are beyond our power.

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Stephie Pahlavi-Zan

Big Mouth

People who know the least always argue the most.

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Stephie Pahlavi-Zan

The Thread

The 80's and 90's were incredibly glorious!
It was all about glamour and fabulocity...
I would never change it for anything...amazing fetes every night...I am very fortunate to have been a big part of it all.
"I was a thread in the weaved quilt of an Era..."

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Stephie Pahlavi Zan